I can officially say that I'm getting married.
Besides that, it's been a crazy few months of unemployment (lol). It has been extremely difficult finding for a new stall. With the crazy rental rates and locations that doesn't fit.
My poor fiancé is working very hard to make things work! (With him working his ass off so I can take my time to look for a good shop)
Back to the ROM topic thou, I mean we have been together for almost 9 years. Like WTF. A crazy long time.
Date
We filed for marriage as we planning to get our legal documents signed on the date we want. Because of the Year 2017.
I mean we got together on the 17th January 2008
So getting married on the 17th January 2017 will be nice right?!
And being a typical chinese... a traditional one, we always choose a good auspicious date to do things like get married, opening a new store, moving in to a new house.
The lady who read the date to us referred my date as a terrible inauspicious date!! OH HELL NO.
We were super disappointed!!! Like WHAT'S THE POINT!!!!! WHAT'S THE POINT OF GETTING MARRIED SO EARLY?!?!!??! :(
Alternative dates were:
7 July 2017
And others that I can't be bothered to mention. -_-
We talked about it and I was like "How about the 7th January 2017?"
We both looked at each other wide eyed and nodded. That was the date.
7th January 2017
My mother wasn't really happy with us keep switching dates. (lol) As we told her like 3 dates in like a month of decision.
Don't blame me, blame the date.
Venue
Nick and I don't really have a preference in venue, but we wanted it to be very private.
To have limited amount of guests (Like a maximum of 30-35pax). As we are planning to have a Chinese customary dinner in 2018, there is no reason why I have to invite as much people to our ROM.
I mean, if you are not close to that person in either way. Why will he want to listen to you exchanging your vows?! There is no meaning to that, so NOPE.
First off:
Sofitel So Singapore
There was two parts to it, a Villa Du Jardin (30pax) or Spice Point (60pax)
Looks so good on the picture I had to quickly e-mail the hotel representative. We exchanged many e-mails, going back and forth on confirming a DATE to view the location. First time it was the rain, she has to last minute cancel my appointment thru an e-mail. -_-
Never mind of that, tried to follow up but almost all dates that I'm available, the Villa is not available for viewing. Or either way around. It was so devastating. TOTALLY GIVEN UP.
Really no fate, Bo bian.
Resorts World Sentosa, Singapore
Super nice Ocean dome to solemnise. I mean what can you complain about?
Only thought that maybe the coordinator was bit stuck up with the replies to my e-mails. So I didn't bother to carry on with the viewing of location. Of cause, the timing of viewing was a bit off for us.
Fullerton Bay Hotel, Singapore
Went to view the place, very intimate indeed. There are 3 pods available, and only one that has the best view of the riverfront and Marina Bay Sands.
If you have pax for about 20-30 maximum. This place will be to-go for. But we were going thru our guest list and realised we have about 35 guests so we will have to forgo this beautiful place.
Goodwood Park Hotel
In the end, we settled with Goodwood Park Hotel Poolside Terrace. This hotel brings out the colonial feel. Which is something I like and feel nostalgic about.
Situated at the start of Orchard road, super convenient for my friends that do not drive and which most of them stay in CCK. (Bus 190 Yay)
The buffet menu given to us to choose from is HUGE. Lots of variety. (Will update next time after I confirmed the menu)
We planned the event to be at dinner time because of the outdoor venue. (Afraid will be too hot for everyone) That's the only bad point, other than that, I love this place.
The catering team manager, was very nice when liaising. Was attentive to what we were looking for, and prompt in replies. Which I appreciate and feel thankful about.
I feel the coordinators are the ones that play a big part in your wedding planning! So it is always super important to find someone who can take that responsibility to make the couple feel good about their big day!
Others.. I will leave for part two. There is too many things to add in this ROM preparation post. May be too lengthy!
Yawnz... typing at 7.30am with only 3 hours of sleep is no joke. Going back to rest now. Goodnight world.